Being sexual and embracing your own sexuality is the most beneficial thing you can do for your overall happiness. I struggled with insecurities for a lot of my life. Now I have embraced who I am. I am not perfect, nor do I want to be perfect. Perfect is boring and stale. I love who I am. I love JediRich. We are a polyamorous couple. Which means we are open to multiple loves. We have had a couple of girlfriends since we have been together and we fuck other people.
This seems crazy to some people. Unless you are a virgin or have only had one partner then you are polyamorous. You just have not allowed yourself to embrace that. No human is monogamous by nature. That is why the most common reason couples break up or have issues is due to cheating. If you just allowed each other to see and fuck other people then there wouldn’t be over 60% of marriages ending in divorce.
Jealousy comes from people putting up walls and not allowing their significant other to look, or mention or let alone hook up with another person. This is almost 2019 my friends. Monogamy was created by religion to keep people in a box and to shut down sexuality.
Sex sells, so our society wants to take sex from us and sell it back to us. Churches make the majority of their money from weddings and marriage counseling. They will always say you should only be with one person. Well news flash unless your partner is the only person you have ever fucked that ship sailed my friends. Stop trying to live up to something that you are not, and that no one is. Everyone should be fucking and wants to be fucking daily.
JediRich and I have sex 2-3 times a day. Most married couples are lucky if they are having sex once a week or once a month. That’s a shame. What is life without sexuality? It is a depressing, sad existence. I choose to live in a life that circles around sex and my sexuality. I love dancing sexy and being sexy. As a married woman, people frown upon that. I like to walk around in my panties. I get banned from social media for that. Wifes block me on social media. I get comments calling me a whore on our website. But guess what, I do not care if they do, I am a proud whore, slut, and super sexual girl. I love being sexual.
That’s why everyday is the best day of my entire life. You can live everyday as the best day if you throw your sexual repression out the window. Let’s have 2019 be a year with tons of sex!! Go hook up with your significant other now!! Or someone else you have agreed upon.
Monogamy goes against your true feelings that’s why you feel miserable, depressed and sexually anorexic. It’s not normal for us to be not having sex. If you are not having daily sex, put that as your top New Year’s Revolution. I guarantee you will never regret getting laid more often. No one dies saying I wish I would have never fucked anyone. Instead they say, man I should have gotten around more. Don’t die a virgin or a one partner person.
The world is full of beautiful people. It is a shame to look at those people under jealous eyes instead of admiration or potential lovers. 2019 is a change of the tides. Sex and Satan is making a resurgence. Especially if you live in Sin City. You better be representing by enjoying yourself and getting laid as much as possible, because this is Satan’s city. The only things he cares about is sex, love, nature, being satisfied and happy.
I am bisexual. I believe that everyone is bisexual by nature. In our current society, people would never admit this. If one listens to their own inner feelings they will realize sexual attraction and sexuality comes in many different forms. All beings are attracted to both sexes. If beings did not find the same sex attractive then we would never find ourselves attractive. Now if you say JediJoy, well I don’t even find myself attractive. That is only because a lot of people are dealing with depression and weight problems. This is not your fault. This is a problem with the food industry. They have destroyed food. What food has become is a death trap. We only eat Organics, Gluten Free, Dairy Free, No added sugar, no sugar substitutes, no alcohol and the big one no caffeine. This appears to be super extreme. Well it has become that way due to the food industry lying to everyone and selling food that makes you sluggish, overweight, sick and eventually leads to early death or suicide from being so discontent with your looks. So if you look past criticizing your weigh you will remember that you do love yourself. Switch to Organics as the first thing to transition to a healthy lifestyle. Once you feel good about yourself, you will want to be sexual again. You will find every sex attractive. You will no longer put yourself or others in a box. Do not define yourself as straight, gay, lesbian, etc. Those are all labels and restrictions. Be open to loving every race, color and sex. Do not limit yourself to one sex. Then you write off half the population. You cannot love your own body if you deny that you are attracted to the same sex as you are.
My name is Jedi Joy Lightowler. I am a writer, USAF Vet, and an eating disorder and nutrition specialist.
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