You Must Learn to Love Others First Before You Can Ever Love Yourself

Love Others First, Then You Will Love Yourself

Most of us have been taught that we must learn to love ourself first before learning loving others.  This is misguided fallacy. But how the brain, body and spirit communicate with your self is through social feedback. 

When we criticize others, our brain is  actually criticizing the things about yourself that the brain hates about but you are in denial so the brain shows what it hates about you in a mirror;  but it's of another person.  When you feel that you can't stand a person, either in a video or in person, the brain points everything we cannot stand about ourselves in that mirror.